Cassie's Nimble Nuggets

I am on the phone alot with moms of middle school girls, why? Because it is one of the most socially agressive times in a girls life. Its starts around fourth grade and by the time the hormones kick in, girls are struggling with some deep issues. Cutting, sexuality, identity, community, internal, and external pressures. I hope to help give you tools to begin the conversations with your daughters so that they can learn survival skills. These skills will help them thrive in environments where relational aggression flourishes. As your daughter grows and flourishes she can learn to survive this world a little better. Speak up and Be aware All kids struggle with big feelings, the reason why it is so hard for girls is because their feelings shared, can have a direct effect on their social life. Peer pressure for girls is being empathetic and compassionate. You don't want to stand out becuase then you won't have protection. And for many girls they crumble and diminsh who the

I want to talk to you about one of the hardest things your daughters will deal with.  Petty social environments.  I remember once someone was hurting my daughter socially and being a momma bear, I wanted to go into Defcon 5 mode.  I think every mom has been there, we have felt the hurt of social aggression, especially if we have daughters.   I had felt social agression when I was growing up, but it wasn't until I was in women's ministry that I heard the term social aggression.  What is Social Aggression?   Social aggression is a form of antisocial behavior ( Burt et al., 2012 ) in which social relationships and social status are used to damage reputations and inflict emotional harm on others, and centers on behaviors such as gossiping, ostracism, and threatening to end a friendship. If your a mom of girls, it sounds like every single middle school experience right?  That would be because this is the number one issue girls have.  Where boys have physical aggression, girls use so